Weekends are always great when the start off with a visit from Uncle Dan!
My brother came over to visit us on Friday evening, and even came with pizza, salad, and wings for dinner. It sure was a nice treat.
Although Lucas didn’t really care much about the food, he DID enjoy learning how to do a “hulk smash” from his Uncle D, and it gave all of us a good, much needed laugh.
Between the hulk smash, and these three “steamrolling” around on the floor, these boys definitely had me in stitches.
Does anyone still really say that? In stitches? Ah well.
On Saturday morning, we went and brought Lucas to get some bloodwork done, which we’d been putting off since his 2-year check up (they needed a standard, lead level test). Naïve mom over here just assumed it would be like when he was a newborn, which meant a little prick to the foot to draw blood, but ohhh nooooo. He needed the full needle into the vein of his inner elbow.
Thankfully, he took it SO much better than I expected him to, and he even thanked the nurse when she was done. I’ll tell ya…
While Lucas napped on Saturday, Jay and I took care of a few things around the house, including a little revamp for our old filing cabinet.
We used some of the chalky finish spraypaint I bought last week, and it really couldn’t have been easier to use.
I say that, but notice the one who’s doing the work… 
I still need/want to paint the handles, so hopefully I’ll be able to do that soon. But overall, I think it’s looking SO much better already.
Jay and I also worked on putting together a few pictures collages for my father-in-law, which is why I’ve been asking you all for your positive thoughts and prayers.
He’s been in the hospital for a little while now, and we recently found out just last week that he’s really not doing well. So we figured maybe some pictures of his grandson would help cheer him up. We can only hope.
After going to visit him in the hospital for a couple of hours, we dropped Lucas off at my parents’ house so Jay and I could head out and just grab a beer and try to relax. We did just that by grabbing a couple seats at the bar of Applebee’s and ordered some apps.
And after we finished our apps and drinks, we headed home and enjoyed a quiet evening on the couch, including a renal of Pitch Perfect 2.
I just love this guy.
On Sunday, I woke up early, got a workout in, and then we headed over to my parents’ house to see Lucas and watch the Jets game.
My mom put out a nice, delicious spread for the game too, but brunch-style since it was so early.
I’m definitely not complaining about it.
FYI: My brother…yes, this one down here who steals my phone to take snazzy selfies…made a batch of my Best Ever Crockpot Applesauce but also decided to add caramel chunks to it as well. Hoooooly crap…definitely try that.
It was nice to be able to hang out with not only my parents and brother, but also his girlfriend Carissa, who we hadn’t seen in a while.
Gooooo Jets!
We had to leave the game a little after half-time, thanks to a certain Cranky McCrankerson who needed a nap, but it all worked out and we had such a nice morning.
As for the rest of Sunday, it was fairly low-key and included some cleaning, blog work, baking a loaf of my Grandma’s Banana Bread, and playing around with the little guy.
I hope you all have an awesome week ahead – go ahead and make it great. And be sure to hug your love ones extra tight. <3
So sorry to hear about your FIL. My dad was in the hospital for two weeks unable to walk about a month ago – it’s tough to see someone you love like that! Sending positive thoughts and healing wishes your way!
so sorry to hear about your FIL. But the pictures are such a sweet idea. Sending lots of well wishes and prayers.
I can’t believe Lucas thanked the nurse after getting blood drawn! How cute! I always feel so bad when my little guy gets shots but then he is fine 2 seconds later. He cries longer when he bumps his head! Go figure.
So sorry to hear about your father-in-law. Sending your family hugs. Your collages are so thoughtful and sweet. Looks like an otherwise relaxing weekend with the people you love, and that’s always necessary.
Thinking of you guys during this tough time! Glad you got to get some family time in this weekend. That is the best!
Hi Courtney! I am a long time reader and today felt eager to comment! It seems very odd to me how you send Lucas off to your parents house for the night quite often. Being that you are a full time working mama (which I have great respect for), I would think that on weekends you would want to spend as much time with him as possible. I’m not trying to be disrespectful, it just seems odd to me!
Hey Kate, no disrespect taken and no worries. Lucas has spent a night the past two weekends with my parents, and both were directly related to Jay and I needing to be out to take care of things with my father-in-law. It’s a little out of the norm, as he’ll usually spend the night once every couple of months., but we’re incredibly lucky to have them so close by to be able to drop off if needed! This past weekend, we all spent the whole day together and we didn’t drop him off until after 7pm…and he usually goes to bed between 7:30-8. :) Trust me, I cherish every moment with Lucas when I’m with him, and I miss him terribly during the day! But on occasions that aren’t necessarily like the past two weeks, Jay and I also think it’s incredibly important to still take time for ourselves as well. Are you a mama, too? :)
Hi Courtney, I have never commented before but feel compelled to after seeing your response. You have such an honest, caring and gentle tone in your writing and your communications with your readers (which sometimes can be difficult to achieve in an “on-line” voice). I have so much respect and appreciation for you because of it.
Sending you healthy vibes to your FIL and your family. You are right; self-care, including your relationship, is so important. Besides, I am sure the grandparents don’t mind a bit to spend the time with the little cutie!
Thank you so much, Selina, I really appreciate that.
And thanks for commenting! Hope to see you around some more! :)
Agreed 100% with this comment. xo
Yes…a 2.5 year old and an 18 mth old :) I work part time as an attorney in my old firm, very lucky to have the best of both worlds!
I don’t think someone who has only read bits and pieces of someones life should be able to comment on what they deem is the norm or what they should do with whatever spare time they have left in the day.
That must have been so nice to have a night alone. I miss family being close since moving down to FL. I would pay good money to have Nia at my mom’s house so I can have a night alone with the hubby haha!!! Your little guy is just TOO adorable though!!
Hahaha! Nights out with the hubby are DEFINITELY a priority! Thanks so much, Char – your little Nia is adorable, too! (And after reading your post, I give you major props for all that you do at home with her. It’s not easy, but you’re doing an amazing job – keep it up! :) )
I’m sorry to hear about your father in law. I hope he’s better soon. Your family is in my thoughts.
I’m sorry to hear about your father in law. I hope things get better. Keeping your family in my thoughts.