Yesterday, Jay and I were very fortunate to be able to spend the afternoon with family and celebrate with them at our first baby shower.
Isn’t that cake just adorable? Make sure you look closely at the flower…and the little babe sleeping on top of it.
It was a small, intimate shower with most of Jay’s side of the family, which meant that I got to spend more time with some of my favorite cousin friends. Always love seeing them.
Everything was put together by my mother-in-law, who did a really amazing job, and there was no doubt that she really made the two of us feel quite special and loved.
Unfortunately, I realized after the fact that I didn’t do the best job of getting pictures of everything, due in part to my mingling with guests and not already having the camera in my hand. But we had a delicious, late lunch, and guests got to play a cute “What’s Mommy Thinking?” game, as well as decorate some diapers.
I haven’t had a chance to check out the diapers yet, but I can’t wait to see what kind of messages were left for the two of us. We’ll keep those diapers for the “late night changings,” when we might need an extra laugh or two. :)
After lunch, it was time to open gifts, and Jay and I were on the spot.
I had to laugh because this was the first time that Jay has ever gotten to really experience a shower…
And he didn’t realize I was going to make him sit up front with me and open gifts. ;)
Baby Tooth received lots of adorable, generous gifts yesterday and now with having it all sitting in our living room, things are starting to seem even more real. Crazy, crazy, crazy.
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It was a great afternoon spent with family, and the two of us left certainly feeling very blessed…unfortunately, as great of a day that it was, my weekend wasn’t filled with all positive news.
Sadly, late Saturday morning, I received the news that my grandma had passed away.
(Back on her 85th birthday in 2010)
Grandma hadn’t been doing well for a while now. Last week was her birthday and my whole family was able to get together at the same time to visit her in the nursing home, which was nice. Although she was a little out of it, she knew that we were all there and that’s what mattered most. In fact, she still even had her moments and managed to greet me by saying “Hey there, potbelly!” and proceeded to say how she still couldn’t believe I was having a baby. She made me laugh…and she’s the only one I’ll let get away with calling me potbelly.
She went peacefully in her sleep, which is all we could ask for, and as sad as it is to have her pass on, our family is all finding comfort in the fact that she’s no longer suffering. So now, she’s probably up in Heaven with my grandpa and the two of them-I’m sure-are probably out on the bowling lanes and drinking their cups of coffee…grandpa with his Boston Cream, and grandma with her plain cake donut to dunk.
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Karla says
Sending hugs to you and your family, Courtney! Your grandma sounds like an absolutely lovely woman. Your post is such a lovely tribute to her!
Hope @ With A Side Of Hope says
I first want to start off by saying, I am so sorry about your grandmother! What you wrote was so sweet. My thoughts are with you and your family!
Your shower was so cute! I love that cake! :)
Tiff @ Love, Sweat, & Beers says
I am so sorry about your grandmother. Though she’s in a better place, I know you’ll still miss her!
Caitlyn @ City and the Cubicle says
What a ride this post is. I was smiling at the shower pics. You are seriously such a cute pregnant lady I can’t get over it. Hooray for Jay’s first shower experience. :) Glad you had a good time and got to soak it all in ! I’m so sorry for the loss of your grandma. I will keep her in my prayers.
Karen says
Sending thoughts and prayers to you and your family. I am happy you enjoyed your shower this weekend. Are you having one on your side? Baby & Bridal Showers are so much fun!! Have a great week!!
Ashlee @ A Step in the Right Direction says
So Sorry to hear about your grandmother. It is tough to lose a loved one, but it does help to know they are not suffering anymore.
I love that cake! Very cute and I am glad you had a wonderful time at your shower.
Ashley @ My Food N Fitness Diaries says
So sorry to hear about your grandma, Court. Lots of hugs and love to you!! xoxo
Becki @ Fighting for Wellness says
Definitely lots of ups and downs, but it’s so great that you have been able to spend time with family. Losing someone is never easy, but being able to see her shortly before she passed is such a blessing.
Lisa says
I’m sorry to hear about your Grandma Courtney! Sending you lots of positive thoughts and prayers.
Claire @ Flake and Cake says
So sorry to hear your news Courtney, lots of prayers to you and your family. Your baby showers looks so beautiful
Linz @ Itz Linz says
what a lovely shower! itz nice your gram got to celebrate one more birthday with everyone around her, that’s nice. i’m sorry for your loss though. xoxo
Melanie @ BeautifullyNutty says
I’m so sorry for your loss, Courtney. But like you said, she is in a better place now where there is no suffering and she is smiling down on you and always will be. Keep smiling sweetheart! xoxo
Christine says
So sorry to hear about the passing of your grandmother, sending positive thoughts and wishes to you and your family.
EG Gal says
So sorry to hear about your Grandma.
I had no idea that was your mother-in-law. We attend Holy Spirit and always see her there. She is so sweet and great with everybody there.
Kristin says
Sorry to hear about your Grandmother, thoughts are with you and your family.
Your shower cake is sooooooooooo adorable – the little baby flower is the cutest!!!
Sarah @ Making Thyme for Health says
Sorry to hear about your grandmothers passing, Courtney. I’m sure her and your grandfather will be smiling down on the day your son is born.
Caroline says
That cake.. IS ADORABLE. That little baby is the cutest thing I have ever seen! I am also so sorry to hear about your grandma. I recently lost mine as well. And while it’s never easy, it’s always comforting to know they are no longer suffering. Hang in there :)
Gracie says
Courtney, I’m so sorry about your grandmother :( Sending love and prayers your way <3
Mallory @ My Quarter Life (Crisis) says
Sorry for your loss, Courtney.
You looked great at your shower! Adorable cake. And I didn’t know your close girlfriends who I always see pop up on your blog are Jay’s cousins! That is awesome!
Katie says
Sorry for the loss of your gram Court, I know how hard it is to lose a grandparent. Sending love and prayers to you and your family <3
Your shower looked beautiful and so did YOU! I am glad you and Jay had such a special day, you both deserved it!
Presh says
My condolences to your family! But I am so glad to hear you guys are looking at the positive.
Awww first baby shower. So exciting! You looked so happy and beautiful at the shower and haha for making Jay sit up front with you!
Lauren @ LaMaLu Boutique says
Courtney, I’m so sorry for your loss.
Jolynn says
Sorry to hear about your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with your family.
Avery @ SBLW says
Send hugs ‘n’ love your way. Saying good bye to a loved one is especially difficult (especially when it’s one you’re close enough to to let them call you potbelly). You’re shower looks fun, intimate, and full of love!
Kim @ Hungry Healthy Girl says
I’m very sorry about your grandma, Courtney, but I’m glad that she is no longer suffering. It looks like a great shower….baby showers are so much fun!
Danica @ It's Progression says
What a weekend of mixed emotions….I’m so sorry to hear about your grandmother…
This pst Spring one of my great aunt’s passed away a few weeks before my cousin was born – we decided that if one amazing person had to leave this world, then it only made sense that one amazing person was born into it…
Amanda Maggio says
Thinking of you today, Courtney and your family as well! So glad you had a great baby shower the cake is soo precious. xoxo
Chelsea @ LittleOneRuns says
At least most of the weekend was good! I’m sorry for your loss :(
Emily @ Perfection Isn't Happy says
I’m so sorry to hear about your grandma. Sending prayers your way <3.
Fizz @fizzsbizz says
I’m so sorry about your grandma! It’s always a tough time, even knowing that they’re in a better place. Hope you are all hanging in there!
Your shower looked sweet and intimate and filled with love!
Holly @ EatGreatBEGreat says
Sounds like you had such a wonderful baby shower and the cake is beautiful! I love the baby in the flower…so cute!
I’m so sorry to hear about your grandma. Losing loved ones is so difficult, but at least she’s in a good place now and she is reunited with your grandpa.
Hannah @ CleanEatingVeggieGirl says
I am very sorry to hear about the loss of your grandma. You and your family will certainly be in my thoughts and prayers.
I am glad that you were able to have a great baby shower, though. That cake is absolutely fantastic!
Marielle says
You looked so pretty at your shower!!! Sounds like it was a lot of fun :)
Sorry to hear about your Grandma, sending thoughts your way!
Carol T. says
Courtney:
I am so sorry for the loss of your grandmother. My prayers go out to you and your family. She is now watching over you and sweet Baby Tooth….
Lauren says
My grandmother passed away about 6 months ago and it was the hardest thing for me to accept. I know she’s with my Grandfather, though, and happy to be looking down on me. <3 I'm sending lots of love to your family.
Jamie @ Sometimes Healthy Living Blog says
I’m so sorry to hear about your grandmother, but I’m glad that she went peacefully. My best friend’s grandpa passed right around the time she had her first baby. As cheesy as it sounds, it gave her comfort to think about the whole “circle of life thing.” I love the image of your grandparents in heaven dunking donus :-) Thinking of you and your family!
Erica @ For the Sake of Cake says
It looks like you had a beautiful shower! I’m sure all of the gifts and “stuff” does seem to make it more “real”!
So sorry to hear about your grandmother!!
Kristen @ notsodomesticated says
I’m so sorry for your loss, Courtney! Sending many hugs your way!
Andrea @pencils and pancakes says
So sorry to hear about your grandma…I’ve lost two grandparents this year and its hard but a part of life nonetheless.
Megan says
Sorry to hear about your Gram! Hugs to you…
Angela @ Beauty in Strength says
What a beautiful baby shower Courtney! My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Your grandmother sounds like such a strong woman, and she will be looking down with pride on her great grandson soon!
Jess says
So sorry to hear about your grandmother, Courtney. That was a beautiful post in her memory. And also a beautiful baby shower! You have such an amazing support system – baby tooth is such a lucky little guy already!
Caitlin says
I’m sure they are having a blast in Heaven. prayers sent your way!
Tiffany Azure says
Congratulations Courtney on your first shower, don’t blink because all of those diapers are gonna disappear FAST! :) And I’m so sorry to hear about your grandmother, love and prayers to you and your family!!
Ashley @ Life and Fitness says
So sorry for your loss <3
Kristen says
Im very sorry to hear about your loss. I love that you said your grandma is with your grandpa now bowling and drinking their coffee. Sometimes its hard to remember that they’re now in a place of no sadness or pain!
Stacey M. says
So sorry to hear about your grandmother Courtney. Sending my deepest sympathies to you and your family during this difficult time. She may be gone, but she is certainly in a better place and will not be forgotten by those who loved her.
Natalie @ Free Range Human says
I’m so sorry to hear about your loss, Courtney. I know it’s never easy, but I’m glad that she went peacefully and that you were able to enjoy so many years with her. I hope those good memories are what you cling to in the coming days!
Nicole says
Sending lots of love and care to you and your family with the loss of your Grandma. I hope the special memories you have of her replay in your heart often.
Cheers for a great first baby shower!! What a cute party!
Amanda @ A Latte Learn says
So sorry to hear about your grandmother. Your shower looked beautiful; it’s so nice to be surrounded by loving family!
Kellie says
So sorry to hear about your Grandma. Such a bittersweet weekend for sure. Soak up all that extra love!
Katie@LifesNextBigStep says
I’m so sorry for your loss!
The shower looked great and it looks like Jay had a good time :)
Morganne @ Nut Butter Runner says
I’m so sorry for your loss! You and your family are in my prayers.
Thankful that you had a nice shower for baby tooth!
Jenny says
Bless your heart. Prayers to you and your family for comfort during this difficult time.
Betty says
I had read that this am about your grandmother – so sorry for you and your family. But sunday – what a great looking party – sweet cake – may the ups and downs of this week be more up than down – take care
Krystan says
So sorry about your grandma…we are never prepared to lose a loved one. I’m glad that she went peacefully and I will be praying for your family through this time!
Happy you were able to have a fun shower this weekend too…it is so much fun getting all those cute items and it certainly does make it feel even more real! It’s really not that far away now!
Shel@PeachyPalate says
So cute that Jay sat up with you! Really sorry to hear about your Gran….one life taken and one just about to begin xxx
Nicole @ FruitnFitness says
I’m so sorry to hear about your grandmother. I am glad that your family is at peace and knows she is no longer suffering. I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts.
Annette@FitnessPerks says
What a beautiful shower–and you look radiant!
I am so sorry to hear about your loss/passing of your grandma. That is always so tough to lose a loved one. hugs <3
Elizabeth @ My Neon Running Shoes says
I’m sorry for your loss Courtney! I hope your family finds comfort!
Sam @ Better With Sprinkles says
I’m so sorry for your loss Courtney – sending love and good thoughts!
Lisa says
I am so sorry about your grandmother.
Shelly says
I’m sorry for your loss. I’m glad you can have the comfort of knowing your grandma is in a better place.
Olivia @ Liv Lives Life says
You look gorgeous, Courtney, and I’m so glad you had a good time at your shower!
I am so, so sorry to hear about your grandma’s passing. It sounds like she was a fun lady. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Tara@PNWRunner says
I am so sorry to hear about your grandmother. Sounds like she was a great woman with a good sense of humor! Congrats on your baby shower. I bet you have lots of clothes and accessories for the little one! :)
Shari says
I’m so very sorry for your loss. Your grandma sounds like a wonderful woman, and I hope, in time, that you’ll all be able to look back on the memories with smiles instead of tears. Sending many prayers your family’s way.
Meghan @ After the Ivy League says
So sorry to hear about your family’s loss :( Passing in her sleep is truly the most peaceful way to have gone though. Comforting to know that she’s in a better place now, enjoying that plain cake donut.
Maria@The_Brooklyn_Fig says
I’m very sorry to hear about your grandmother, Courtney. I lost mine in October and was heartbroken- you and your family are in my prayers.
I’m glad to see you had a wonderful shower though :)
Miranda @ Miranda Runs says
Sorry to hear about your grandma. Mine died February 15th and it’s still hard to believe she’s actually gone. Your family is in my prayers! On a bright side, glad that your shower went fabulously!
Katie @ Talk Less, Say More says
My thoughts to you and your family, sorry to hear about your grandma.
On a happier note, your baby shower looked beautiful and that cake is so freaking adorable!
Sarah says
What a beautiful cake and shower! So sorry to hear about your grandma. Now she’s also watching over you with your grandpa and will of course be with you on the very special day of the birth of her great grandson. I think it’s so ironic how it always seems to come true what they say: when someone in your family passes away another person soon has a baby.
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Tara says
Courtney, I am so sorry for your loss. Your grandma sounded like one amazing woman and she will be looking down on you and Baby Tooth!
Karen @ Runner Girl Eats says
I am so sorry for your loss. I am glad she is where she belongs now, bowling with her love.
Ellie@Fit for the soul says
Oh Courtney~it’s always so hard to see someone leave this world. But I truly hope that your family will experience a time of crazy unity through this and sense God’s amazing love for you all. So sorry for your grandma’s passing away, but so thankful for the new life that is about to fill your home with your lil baby!
Nicole @ Curly Mommy says
So sorry to hear about your grandma Courtney. Prayers for your family, and hugs too!!
Colleen says
First off, I’m so sorry to hear about your grandmother. Never easy saying goodbye, but I know that she’s watching over you!!!
Glad that you had such a great time at the shower… looks like you are a very loved mommy to be!
Jillian @ sprinkle massacre says
So sorry to hear about your Grandma, Courtney. It’s always hard and there is not much you can say, but knowing that she went peacefully is comforting. You and your family are in my thoughts!
Sue says
I am so sorry to hear about your grandma. Even though she isn’t suffering anymore, it’s still hard to lose a family member. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Kristi says
I am so sorry to hear about your grandmother passing. I hope you and your family are doing okay.
Leigha says
So sad to hear about your Grandma. Grandparents are my favorite people. She will be in my prayers. <3 Looks like a wonderful baby shower! It really is so close!
Victoria @ Reluctantly Skinny says
So sorry to hear about your grandma, but glad you got to share her birthday with her last week! Lots of love and prayers to your family.
Karleenka says
So sorry to hear about your loss Courtney. Hope your family is doing well and I’m happy you got celebrate the expectantly of a new life this past weekend as well:)
Ashley @ Sweat for Sweets says
So sorry to hear about your grandmother. It’s always so hard losing a family member. Sending lots of love and warm thoughts your way!
PS – I totally wouldn’t have spotted that baby in the flower on your cake if you hadn’t pointed it out. Too cute!